Listening and Learning
It seems that we shall eventually come to believe that the
responsibility for effective oral communication must be equally shared
by speakers and listeners. When this transpires, we shall have taken a
long stride toward greater economy in learning, accelerated personal
growth, and significantly deepened human understanding. — Ralph Nichols
I think I'll learn more from listening. Anything I would say I already
know. — Anonymous student explaining while she did not wish to
participate in a discussion, quoted in Christian Science Monitor
A wise man listening to a fool will learn more than a fool listening to a wise man. — Anonymous
The discipline of the writer is to learn to be still and listen to what his subject has to tell him. — Anonymous
A little-recognized value of listening and inquiring relates to the
realization that in human relationships, it is frequently not what the
facts are, but what people think the facts are, which is truly
important. There is benefit in learning what someone else's concept of
the reality of the situation is, no matter how wrong it might be. —
Bryan Bell
Education commences at the mother's knee, and every word spoken within
the hearing of little children tends towards the formation of
character. — Hosea Ballou
An intelligent person is someone who listens with understanding. — M. Bradley
Oh, listen a lot and talk less. You can't learn anything when you're talking. — Bing Crosby
Listening means an awareness, an openness to learning something new
about another person. Interrupting, even for clarification, can seem to
be rude, but listening with the intent to learn is an approach to a
different type of conversation. — Elizabeth Debold
We listen in order to learn and retain information. If we are speaking,
we are not listening or learning anything to add to our sum of
knowledge. This is why the first step to effective listening is to stop
talking! — Ken Fracaro
Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence. — Robert Frost
She put the shell against her ear.
Then rising from her knee,
She closed her eyes, and, pressing hard,
She listened for the sea.
I knew she heard the water roar;
She glowed with childish pride.
To hold the ocean in her hand
Was more than she could hide.
She ran across the sand to me;
I listened for awhile
Then tucked the shell within her hand
And nodded with a smile.
I thought that she could learn from me,
But who am I to tell?
She brought the ocean home today;
I only brought a shell.
— Darrell T. Hare
I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen. — Ernest Hemingway
In order that all men may be taught to speak the truth, it is necessary
that all likewise should learn to hear it. — Samuel Johnson
I learned to write by listening to people talk. I still feel that the
best of my writing comes from having heard rather than having read. —
Gayl Jones
I make progress by having people around me who are smarter than I am
and listening to them. And I assume that everyone is smarter about
something than I am. — Henry J. Kaiser
I feel like a terribly slow learner in acknowledging that only in
recent years have I come to learn that listening is a primary way by
which I can become a significant person in my own eyes and in the eyes
of others. And I must continually relearn it. — Earl Koile
We should never pretend to know what we don’t know, we should not feel
ashamed to ask and learn from people below, and we should listen
carefully to the views of the cadres at the lowest levels. Be a pupil
before you become a teacher; learn from the cadres at the lower levels
before you issue orders. — Mao Tse-Tung
Talk less--you will automatically learn more, hear more, see more--and make fewer blunders. — Mark McCormack
If in all our practices of life we could learn to listen . . . . if we
could grasp what the other persons are saying as they them-selves
understand what they are saying, the major hostilities of life would
disappear for the simplist reason that misunderstanding would
disappear. — Harry Overstreet
Let the wise listen and add to their learning and let the discerning get guidance. — Proverbs 1:5
A little-recognized value of listening and inquiring relates to the
realization that in human relationships, it is frequently not what the
I've learned ... that it is best to give advice in only two
circumstances: when it is requested and when it is a life-threatening
situation. — Andy Rooney
When you stop learning, stop listening, stop looking and asking
questions, always new questions, then it is time to die. — Lillian Smith
When you talk, you repeat what you already know; when you listen, you often learn something. — Jared Sparks
[T]he seeds of [the Argument Culture] can be found our classrooms,
where a teacher will introduce an article or an idea . . . setting up
debates where people learn not to listen to each other because they're
so busy trying to win the debate. — Deborah Tannen
